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Some time ago, I found myself single again (shock, horror!) and decided to get back into the world of dating.

Love Is Blind But of course, the social context matters as well.

Consuming alcohol, for example, really can make everyone else appear more physically attractive.

One thing I learned very quickly was that there are no “laws of attraction”, no guarantees of success in dating, no foolproof methods or strategies for getting someone to date you.

Human psychology is too complex to reduce to rules or laws of attraction – but that’s not the same as saying that there’s nothing to be gained from understanding the processes involved in attraction.

Understanding the science of attraction can’t guarantee you a date tonight, but it can point the way towards forming mutually benefiting relationships with other people.

Location, Location So what does this science of attraction tell us?In fact, decades of research has shown that attraction is most likely to be sparked when two people perceive themselves as being very similar to each other. It could be similarity in terms of sociodemographics – most relationships are formed between people who are similar in terms of age, social class, occupational background, and so on.But more important than sociodemographics is similarity of values – everything from musical tastes to political orientation.And we bring all bring “baggage” into new relationships, whether it’s preconceived notions of what a relationship should be like or our past experiences with previous partners.All of this makes it difficult to know in advance how relationships will turn out in advance.And my own research has shown that love sometimes really is blind.

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